Communicating STI News to a Partner

August 9, 2023

This blog post highlights the importance of communicating STD contraction with a partner, why it is important to tell them, and how to break the news to them.

Why Should I Tell My Partner? 

First off, notifying a partner about a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) is essential for maintaining trust within the relationship. Honesty and open communication are fundamental to any successful partnership. Sharing this sensitive information demonstrates respect and consideration for one’s partner’s health and well-being. Early disclosure allows for timely medical intervention. Proper diagnosis, treatment, and monitoring are necessary for STIs. Informing one’s partner promptly allows both individuals to seek medical attention and counseling, which can lead to better health outcomes and prevent potential complications. Early diagnosis also curtails the spread of the infection to others.

Talking with your partner or partners about an STI promotes more responsible sexual behavior in general. When  aware of an infection, most people naturally engage in safer sex practices, such as using condoms, abstaining from sexual activity, or immediate  treatment. Responsible l behavior is not just crucial for the individuals involved, but also contributes to better overall public health. 

How Do I Tell My Partner? 

To effectively communicate the presence of an STI, individuals should follow certain guidelines. Choose a suitable time and place for the conversation, ensuring privacy and limited distractions. Approach the discussion with empathy and sensitivity, acknowledging the difficult nature of the subject matter. Use clear and non-blaming language to avoid unnecessary conflicts or misunderstandings. 

In addition to having the conversation, provide factual information about the specific STI. This can include symptoms, transmission methods, and available treatments they can seek out. Encourage the partner to seek medical advice and testing to safeguard their health. Offer emotional support during the process, as receiving such news can be emotionally challenging. 

How Can I Avoid an STI? 

According to the CDC, there are millions of sexually transmitted infections in the United States each and every year. But the good news is that there are ways to lower your risk of contracting STIs or even avoid them altogether.   

  1. Abstinence (do not engage in vaginal, oral, or anal sex)
  2. Condoms (proper use)
  3. Fewer partners (or practice monogamy)
  4. Vaccinations
  5. Create a plan with your partner (for example, consider testing prior to sex)

While only the first one from the list above is a guarantee, several others can dramatically lower your chances of contracting an infection.

Overall, candidly discussing the contraction of an STI with one’s partner is a crucial aspect of responsible sexual behavior. Such conversations build trust, enable timely medical intervention, foster responsible sexual practices, and ultimately reduce the spread of infections within the population. Practicing open communication and empathy in such situations can lead to a healthier and more informed relationship for both individuals involved. AFC Urgent Care Portland offers STI Testing at all of our clinics! To book an appointment call us at (503) 305-6262 or book online by clicking here!

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